It’s been 5 and a half years since I started Frugal in Singapore. Let me just say that I’m so grateful to all those who supported me throughout this journey. But much has changed online and in the blogosphere. Blogging has become less about sharing, and more about making money through sponcon, product placements and online content marketing. And that’s just not for me. So I feel it’s time to take a break from blogging. At least for a few months. Maybe longer.

 

How it All Started


As I’ve previously mentioned, I started this blog after I reached a significant financial milestone which allowed me to semi-retire. It is important that I stress the word “after” because I withheld from writing until I was absolutely sure I had the authority, evidence, and experience to share my story and advice.

I didn’t want to be a phony who was sharing unsubstantiated advice, like so many others out there.

In the early days, I was happy to be included in the blogging community. I met so many friendly fellow bloggers. There were also many readers who reached out to me. The response was overwhelmingly positive.

That is, until my first troll (3 years ago). This person had gone out of his/her way to really hurt me. And sadly, it worked. That troll disappeared only to be replaced by others.

 

How it Changed


When the blog became very popular, seemingly overnight, I was bombarded with emails from companies that wanted me to sponsor articles. They wanted to pay me to write positivey about their products or services, but not to label them as “sponsored”.

Even though I told them this was against my policy, these companies persisted. They disclosed to me that many popular Singaporean websites (even ones that dull out financial advice) already receive kickbacks from them and publish pieces without labelling them as “sponsored”.

There were banks, credit card companies, even online casinos that wanted to pay me to put their content and links on this blog. These companies didn’t really want people to be frugal or even financially prudent. Which is why I turned them down. There were also product sponsors who didn’t care if I was even an authentic user of their product. They just wanted me to write a fake review.

And the community of bloggers started changing too.

Now that there is a lot of money in it, people from all over the world have started Singaporean blogs. For example, the CEO of Value Champion Singapore himself has never stepped foot on our island (he lives in New York). But he makes money (though referrals and sponsored content) from his “Singaporean” website.

About a year ago, the offers from companies also changed. To have more control over the content, companies started getting their own freelance writers to write the articles. Then they would offer these written articles to bloggers like me as “free content” for me to use and even pay me a placement fee to use it.

It just became easier and easier for bloggers to sell out. Why come up with content on your own when you can have others write it? All you need to do is copy and paste in order to collect a fee….

But that just wasn’t for me.

 

And Then a Wake-Up Call


Fast forward to June 2019. I attended a “media” event which made it clear that I was no longer part of the community. This event was supposed to be a launch of a new hangout and place to chill and have fun now that school’s out. The space was located within a mall.

And although free and open to the public, it was cramped and tiny. The food options surrounding the space were all unhealthy and over-priced.

But the thing that really got to me was how they decorated the space with painted palm trees that were once alive. The space was supposed to have a nature-inspired theme. But everything looked so fake and staged.

During the media event, all the bloggers (except me) were posing at this new space, surrounded by pastel-coloured palm trees with drinks held high, as if they were on vacation and not in a shopping centre. The striking thing was that no one was engaged or conversing. No one looked like they were truly hanging out and having fun. Everyone was just taking selfies.

I just didn’t see or understand the allure of it. Why create a nature theme that is so unnatural? Why sell it as a space to hangout with good company, when no one is actually hanging out; they’re just taking photos?

I also came dressed in my usual attire (from a thrift store, of course), and not in a sundress and flip flops, as the others did. And five years ago, I would have fit in. Five years ago, the organisers would have had more things for bloggers to do.

But with the rise of Instagram, it seemed that the only thing organisers were interested in were hashtags and likes from well-dressed, young and beautiful people with massive followings.

I didn’t belong there.

 

Concluding Thoughts


When I first started writing this blog, the main focus was on saving money. What I soon realised was that most people knew how to penny-pinch (and be “penny rich”), but the biggest problem was that many were pound foolish. So the articles became more about how use frugality as a framework for decisions and for life.

Someone once told me that what I write about reminded him of Stoicism, a 3rd century BC philosophy. And he’s right. Many of the things I believe in and try to follow are indeed from the Stoics, but with a modern twist.

So with that in mind, I will leave you with my ultimate guiding principle that I often ask myself: Just how much is enough?

It seems like too much of something can be just as harmful as too little of it. This not only applies to money, but also to food, belongings, rewards, ego, and even attention. And in my case, blogging…

My goal, ultimately, has always been to find that point of “enough”, and to be truly content and satisfied with it. Reaching this point makes you immune to temptations like hyper-consumerism, materialism, unhealthy attention-seeking, and other potential addictions and harms. But to achieve this, you have to know what is enough.

And also believe that you are enough.

20 Comments on Taking a Break from Blogging

  1. Spring, in my opinion, you are an ALL-Season Sun. You are one of the very few bloggers I respect in the world because your heart is in the right place.

    SeongWee

  2. I am going to miss you and your articles, but I am happy for you to follow your heart and mind, as always. If this is enough for you, do take a break, or stop. There are always something else out there to do.

    The “hyper-consumerism, materialism, unhealthy attention-seeking” … I agree. And I couldn’t relate to the popularity of those bloggers or instagrammers either. I went cold turkey on Facebook, when all i see are holiday and food photos, and became more content and happier since.

    Your last article “What’s So Wrong with Being Average ?” came in so timely for me when I was reconciling with it myself, esp at work.

    I wish you all the best for your future endeavors. I sincerely hope you will feel the urge to share and write one day, as we still need your advice or a nudge to the right direction once a while. πŸ™‚

    • Thank you, Yat Leng, for your kind words and well wishes! And I’m glad to know you are happier without Facebook (I am too)!

  3. thanks for all your articles over the years, you have been a breath of fresh air compared to the other financial bloggers!

  4. Just a lurker who have been following your blog for quite some time, and was happy to find someone with similar teachings to mr money mustache and livingafi about attaining fi through frugality, but with a Singapore twist. I have yet to find any other blog like yours!
    I’m going to miss your voice in the blogosphere, and I’m quite sure that there are many other quiet ones like me out there who feel the same way. Thank you for all the time and effort you have put in to write these articles.

  5. Thank you very much Spring, for all the efforts and hours you have put in to bring us informative blogs without succumbing to sponsorships.

    Most of all, your writings reflect deep thoughts and values, and I really appreciate that you are true to your readers – this is indeed your strength.

    Even for things that we enjoy doing, there are times that we need to take a haitus from, to relax and have a peace of mind! Please come back when you are ready 😊

  6. Thanks for your articles which helped me settle in Singapore in the past three years. I consult your frugal wvents every week to find a nice place for my family time.Truly appreciate it. All the best for you. Hope you will be back soon.

  7. Thank you for sharing your authentic values and thoughts, your articles have been practical advice and invaluable in cultivating frugality in a wise way. Have a good break and hope you will continue to blog in the future. This is one of my favourite local blogs. All the best and take care.

  8. HI. I seldom make any comments on any websites. I would like to tell you that your blog is one of the websites I visit often every week when I am back in Singapore. It is a good opportunity for me to be up to date. Extremely informative. I love the events calendars and have been to numerous events due to the update from your site. I would like to say Thank You very much.

  9. Thank you for being so generous in sharing your thoughts and experiences through your blog. I really enjoy reading your blog. Take care πŸ™‚

  10. I hope you’ll be back – when you’re ready of course. Bloggers like you are rare. Influencers in social media go through great lengths to hide their sponsorship. Sometimes a heartfelt post or video is created but alas I see a product placement of some sort. It’s all about crafting a narrative that seems authentic.

    I’m sorry you were treated that way at the event. It’s not right. I don’t live in Singapore anymore but I assure you that voices like yours are needed. More than ever. Thank you for writing your articles. They are much enjoyed and appreciated!

  11. Thanks for being a genuine voice in the blogosphere. You were always refreshing to read and I wanted you to know that there are still readers that appreciate your content and have not gone over to a world led by Instagram influencers. I do understand that a part of having a content life is making decisions to add to your happiness and not succumb to outside pressure. Fully supporting your break

    Wishing you the best!

  12. Hi Spring,

    It’s been very hard and trouble some for you to do blogging for 5 years. It’s not that easy to make a blog and just let it go about on it’s own. You have bought up good blog posts, which inspired me and others to go on. But yet, hope to see you back soon.Take care and be happy for whatever you do ahead in your future.

  13. You are a rare gem and will always have my support. Take care and enjoy, hope to see you back when you are ready

  14. I almost never make comments on sites, but i really wanted to thank you for your all your time and effort to come up with the genuine and original blog contents all these years, as well as the the weekly events emailer. You have always been such a great inspiration to me as i work towards my” semi retirement state” and i must say that it’s so rare to find a non-pretentious blog amongst the sea of media clutter with mostly intentions to earn ( in one way or another). My sincerest thanks to you, and i certainly hope to see u back in action, not for the people who make you feel out of place, but maybe for those who genuinely care and enjoy your contents. Hope u find inspirations from what u want to pursue from now too πŸ™‚ cheers!

  15. Started reading your articles after meeting you at a Big Scribe event a year back.

    Really enjoy reading your articles – they are super genuine sharing which I personally appreciates alot! Thank you so much for being yourself!

  16. Thank you for your sharing your articles. I have enjoyed reading them and have shared them with friends and family members. Frugality is something that not many people can relate to these days. Your blog has helped me to learn a lot more about frugal living. Having withdrawal symptom from your weekly articles. Have a good break and hope you will come back soon!

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